Do you think what the simplest word is? Be afraid “NO” of nothing is more... than. But, with respect to this one simple word, however very few person can speak out in vain continuously, if you are not believed, look downward!
你认为最简单的单词是什么？恐怕莫过于“NO”了。可是，就这一个简单的词，却有很少的人能直白地说出来，如果你不信，就往下看看吧！
I see so a stories: Extremely the person that be concerned about face-saving, his father says one day to him: “ I think the most difficult word on the world is not ‘NO’ to not be belonged to. ”“ hum ” . The individual is then quiet and contemptuous ground says: It is difficult that you still say the word, is your English mathematical teacher those who teach? ” says to used the mood that teachs a person a lesson to say “NO” countless times again, father laughs and not language ……
我看到这么一则故事：一个极爱面子的人，他的爸爸一天对他说：“我认为世界上最难的单词非‘NO’莫属了。”“哼”。那个人平静而又轻蔑地说：“这么简单的词你还说难，你的英语是数学老师教的吗？”说完又用教训人的语气说了无数遍“NO”，爸爸笑而不语……
Passed a few days, weather is very cold, froze on lake face, his friend calls him to ice-skating together, he does not want to go very much, because he fears the ice on lake face is not solid. But, he feels embarrassed again reject a friend, because he fears friend jest he, the ice on “ lake face is very thick, very safe. A friend is opposite ” he says. “ hum! Craven. Another friend uses ” the manner that look down on says to him. He is overcome the friend looks down on him, promised to go out. Arrived on the lake, they slipped happily to rise, in can be being guessed to write a composition by him really, the ice on lake face split, they dropped a lake entirely in, although was built in time,come up, but insensible also a few days of ……
过了几天，天气很冷，湖面上结冰了，他的朋友就叫他一起去湖上溜冰，他很不想去，因为他害怕湖面上的冰不坚固。可是，他又不好意思拒绝朋友，因为他害怕朋友笑话他，“湖面上的冰很厚，很安全的。”一个朋友对他说。“哼！胆小鬼。”另一个朋友用看不起的态度对他说。他受不了朋友看不起他，就答应出去了。到了湖上，他们开心地滑了起来，可真被他猜作文中了，湖面上的冰裂开了，他们全部掉入了湖里，虽然及时被搭了上来，但也昏迷了几天……
After the event, his father says: Why don't you await “ in those day say NO? You also understand the safe hidden danger with have certain. Because I fear,”“ is they laugh at me then! They laugh at ”“ you laugh at you, is face more important than your life? I say what is coming, you can say NO when I ask you, same a word, why to face a friend to refuse not know clearly? Our need choice declines a lot of time of ” .
事后，他的爸爸说：“你为什么不在那时候说NO呢？你也明白有一定的安全隐患。”“那是因为我害怕他们笑我啊！”“他们笑你就笑你，难道脸面比你的生命还重要吗？我说什么来着，你在我问你的时候可以说NO，同样一个词，为什么面对朋友就拒绝不了了呢？”很多时候我们需要选择拒绝。
Why do we want “ to choose to reject ” ? In daily life, our all the time is making a choice, the society says to a few things “NO” is our right. Reject temptation, refuse commonplace, it is to refuse even doting, it is our right, these “ choose to inscribe ” to affect situation of an important matter possibly, it is your life even sometimes, so, we should learn “ to choose these ” “ to choose to inscribe ” , do not want to be disturbed by others easily.
我们为什么要“选择拒绝”？日常生活中，我们无时无刻都在做着选择，学会对一些事情说“NO”是我们的权利。拒绝诱惑，拒绝平庸，甚至是拒绝溺爱，都是我们的权利，这些“选择题”都可能影响一件大事情，有时甚至是你的生命，所以，我们要学会“选择”这些“选择题”，不要轻易被别人干扰。
Remember, you feel wrong thing must refuse. The society refuses, the life that is us is polished and good tomorrow.
记住，你觉得错误的事一定要拒绝。学会拒绝，为我们的生活擦亮美好的明天。(文/常津瑞)