What is to importune? I think, the crystal shoe that ground of act in a Procrustean way is grabbing the elder sisters of Cinderella to wear Cinderella is to importune. Importune a meeting to make his more painful, so, not want to importune.
什么是强求？我认为，灰姑娘的姐姐们削足适履地抢着穿灰姑娘的水晶鞋便是强求。强求只会让自己更痛苦，所以，莫要强求。
OK and yearning eagle hits the fish the life of vast sky, but if it does its utmost to go after the sky that does not suit it to live, so, anguish arose. Manage together, the person wants to be not importuned only, the choice suits him, freedom and happy ability can happen.
鱼可以向往鹰击长空的生活，但若它极力追求不适合它生存的天空，那么，痛苦便产生了。同理，人只要不强求，选择适合自己的，自由和快乐才会发生。
Having a words of song is: I give you best love, it is the hand is unlocked. Be, do not importune, it is best love. This is good to both sides. Bian Zhilin ever mixed for Zhang Chong write down: “ bright moon decorated your window, you adorned the line with the dream so good ” of others. At that time the person looks, zhang Chong loves with what should accept Bian Zhilin. But she is done not have, she chose to suit her. Later, she is living gracefully. Of course, bian Zhilin also was not importuned. This is right he himself, be being mixed to Zhang Chong had better not pass.
有句歌词是：我给你最好的爱，是手放开。是啊，不强求，是最好的爱。这对双方都好。卞之琳曾为张充和写下：“明月装饰了你的窗子，你装饰了别人的梦”这样美好的诗句。在当时人看来，张充和应该接受卞之琳的爱。但她没有，她选择了适合自己的。后来，她在悠悠岁月中优雅地生活着。当然，卞之琳也未强求。这对他自己，对张充和都是最好不过的。
See Ming Shizu Zhu Yuanzhang again, twists and turns of all previous classics becomes an emperor. Should enjoy an easy and carefree life ordinarily, but the result is however, he is so tired that he want dead! His suspicion ponderosity, abandon prime minister, read overmarginalia all memorial to the throne. He seizes power closely, never loosen. Then he everyday busy processing is pragmatic, be without leisure time to make Wen Keyan. Original, he need not so tired, want to be put down appropriately only, he can enjoy good life. Common people the emperor is good, my path emperor does not look.
再看明世祖朱元璋，历经波折成为皇帝。按说该享享清福了吧，但结果却是，他累得要死！他疑心极重，废掉丞相，批阅所有的奏章。他将权力抓得紧紧的，从不放松一下。于是他就每天忙着处理国事，毫无闲暇时间作文可言。本来，他可以不这么累，只要适当放下，他就可以享受美好的生活。世人都道皇帝好，我道皇帝看不开。
We should be known in a lot of moment do not go importuning, the choice suits him.
我们在很多时候都应该懂得不去强求，选择适合自己的。
In study, we should search the study method that suits our most. Some person constitutions can stay up late, some people suit to rise early. Some people suit to solve a problem with clever method, some people suit to become a problem dependably, because he wants to use artful method only, can make mistake.
在学习中，我们要找寻最适合自己的学习方法。有的人体质能够熬夜，有的人适合早起。有的人适合用巧妙的方法解题，有的人适合踏踏实实地做题，因为他只要一用巧方法，就会出错。
Although the study method of Number One Scholar is again good, suiting his also is no use. We understand certainly, best with what suit oneself, this is two things. The study method of apply mechanically Number One Scholar, meet oneself bring endless trouble only. Active exploration suits his method, ability sets foot on successful path.
即使状元的学习方法再好，不适合自己也是白搭。我们一定明白，最好的和适合自己的，这是两码事。生搬硬套状元的学习方法，只会给自己带来无尽的烦恼。积极探索适合自己的方法，才能踏上成功之路。
In the life, we should know the wisdom that not importunes. Common saying says: Be willing to part with or use of be willing to part with or use, have abandon ability to have. This “ abandons ” is: Do not importune. Put down those not to belong to those, ability enough take part in a battle with light packs, enjoy the life. If be importuned blindly, can bring lose and anguish only.
在生活中，我们要懂得莫强求的智慧。俗话说：舍得舍得，有舍才有得。这个“舍”便是：不强求。放下那些不属于自己的，才能够轻装上阵，享受生活。若一味强求，只会带来失落和痛苦。
When you understand this true meaning, you can see the beautiful scenery that never saw once upon a time. Probably, you can feel: The life is such happiness unexpectedly so.
当你明白这个真谛时，你会看到从前从未看到的美景。或许，你会感觉到：生活原来竟是如此美好。(文/刘芳)