In flat daily life, always produce a few contradiction inevitably, are you choice violent rage? Still choose good-tempered, be kind to other?
平淡的日常生活中，总是不可避免地产生一些矛盾，你是选择暴怒呢？还是选择宽容，善待他人？
“ irratable ” is the expression of cowardly of a kind of empty, I choose to be kind to other. The handles contradiction way of song heart is a wonderful openly teaching material. He ever went out once take a walk, inopportune is the essayist that comes up against to ever had offerred sharp criticism to his work head on on alley. Heart of thrusting singing in antiphonal style says this essayist: I do not give “ fool gangway ” , and song heart is laughing at an answer however: “ and I am antipodal! ” shows pleasant smiles the ground gives way for the other side. His self-surrender, resource and humour upheld his dignity ably not only, and avoided a meaningless brawl, it is the bearing that lets this essayist also experience him more.
“暴躁”是一种虚怯的表现，我选择善待他人。歌德的处理矛盾的方式则是一个极好的正面教材。他有一次曾外出散步，不巧的是在小路上迎面碰到一位曾对他的作品提出过严厉批评的评论家。这位评论家盛气凌人地对歌德说：“我从来不给傻子让路”，而歌德却笑着回答：“而我正相反！”笑容可掬地为对方让路。他的忍让，机智和幽默不仅巧妙地维护了自己的尊严，而且避免了一场无谓的争吵，更是让这位评论家也感受到他的气度。
The example of a few will contradictory farther become acute also theres is no lack of in the life. This thing is to happen beside us more. At that time we an a certain dormitory, schoolgirl armour Morpheus is very shallow because schoolgirl second is troubled by a bell to be ordered prematurely in the morning and did not close in time, mood of the conversation when washing gargle is impatient, and put forward “ close the ” that be troubled by a bell this proposal, schoolgirl second also thinks to be troubled by a bell to did not disturb him, two people produced quarrel. Later because refuse to give up, schoolgirl armour have no alternative tells a teacher in charge of a class contradiction, this makes schoolgirl second more indignant. Answered a dormitory to erupt again in the evening more acuteness brawl. Classmaster decides to let schoolgirl second full marks later / moved other dormitory. Just began to often fight noisely together in memory the two people of josh disappeared, they had not said a word in reality, till half an year before. Look in me schoolgirl armour and second are moral quality is very good, but the essence that forgot “ to be kind to other ” before anger, mention this thing with them now, they also are right “ is actuation at that time of ” regret, energetically dissuasive I must good-tempered, be kind to other, do not let contradiction takes the advantage of empty and be entered.
生活中也不乏一些将矛盾进一步激化的例子。这件事更是发生在我们身边。当时我们班某个宿舍，女生甲睡眠很浅因为女生乙早上闹铃订得过早并且没有及时关，洗漱时说话语气不耐烦，并且提出“关闹铃”这个建议，女生乙则也认为闹铃并未吵到他，两人发生了口角。后来因为各不相让，女生甲无可奈何将矛盾告诉班主任，这使女生乙更愤怒。晚上回宿舍又爆发了更剧烈的争吵。后来班主任决定让女生乙满分/搬到了别的宿舍。回忆里刚开始经常一起打闹说笑的两人便不见了，现实中他们没有说过一句话，直到半年前。在我看来女生甲和乙都是人品很不错的，但都在愤怒面前忘记了“善待他人”的真谛，现在和她们谈起这件事，她们也都是对当时“冲动”的后悔，大力地劝诫我一定要宽容，善待他人，不要让矛盾趁虚而入。
The choice is kind to other, must anger of slam the door. It is like a clog, can let friendship cut off, leave solution kissing affection, break the happiness of the life. It makes the person cannot get joy, and waste the tremendous energy that strive for danger. No less than lists a husband to hold Er Si Taiyan in the palm: “ makes people suffers angrily, but fall victim is the biggest is him however. Every time when fury above, think these harms, die out laughs at Jie Enchou like that, you get will be when it is difficult to encounter when you in the future, the force with your invisible back.
选择善待他人，一定要摒弃怒气。它有如重物，可以让友谊割断，将亲情解离，将生活的美好打破。它使人得不到快乐，并且把争取的巨大能量消耗殆尽。正如列夫托尔斯泰言：“愤怒使别人遭殃，但受害最大的却是自己。每次怒火上头时，想一想这些危害，泯然一笑解恩仇，你得到的将是日后当你遭遇困难时，你身后无形的力量。
Be kind to other also is practice is in daily life more, if you do not take care to splash soup the dress that washs newly in you to go up in dining room others, want those who choose kindness to answer irrespective ” of a “ ; If you are in ran process, people walked you not carefully beloved to the shoe, choose to be excused well-meaningly.
善待他人也更是实践在日常生活中，若是你在食堂别人不小心将汤溅在你新洗的衣服上，要选择善意的回一句“没关系”；若是你在跑步过程中，别人不小心踩了你心爱对鞋，选择善意的原谅。
A foot steps on “ flat violet, it wears perfume in calcaneal ” however I wish this one violet leaves another person beautiful goodness.
“一只脚踩扁了紫罗兰，它却把香味留在脚后跟”我愿作这一朵紫罗兰将美丽善良留给他人。(文/佚名)